Definitions in Rational Recovery
Below are some glossary definitions from the latest RR book,
Rational Recovery: The New Cure
For Substance Addiction. From the beginning,
Rational Recovery has struggled to devise help using the
tortured language of the recovery group movement, "The
Emperor's New Words." One by one, nearly all expressions
and concepts in the field of addictions have been found
to be inverted, misused, or, all too often, frankly pathogenic.
In order to facilitate clear, helpful communication, the
RR Dictionary attempts to bring order from linguistic chaos.
Many definitions have come from Coordinators and correspondents
to The Journal of Rational Recovery.
Your suggestions are welcome. An understanding of AVRT
is helpful in formulating definitions that will be included
in this expanding reference. The purpose of the RR Dictionary
is to aid people with planned abstinence, not to satisfy
the rigors of science or lexicography.
RR is a different approach
to addiction recovery with different concepts and different
language. For example, we do not speak of being "in
recovery," but are recovered. To us, the concept of
"denial" and "relapse" are perfectly
nonsensical. Likewise, terms like "co-dependency"
and "enabler" have no meaning in RR. We have language
that is better, we think, because it is based on the dictionary
of the English language and common sense rather than recovery
group movement jargon. Here are a few definitions, to get
you started on AVRT-based recovery.
Some RR definitions:
Addiction. 1. Addiction is chemical
use or dependence that exists against one's own better
judgment, and persists in spite of efforts to control
or eliminate the use of the substance. Logically, since
addiction is known only to the individual, it may
not be "diagnosed" except by directly asking the
individual. 2. Addicted people are not out of control,
in the usual sense of the word, but have reversals of
intent which lead back to drinking or drugging. 3. Addiction
exists only in a state of ambivalence, in which one strongly
wants to continue drinking alcohol or using other drugs,
but also wants to quit or at least reduce the painful consequences.
With AVRT, recovery from addiction is a simple, mercifully
brief undertaking. 4. Chemically enhanced stupidity. (See,
chemical dependence and substance abuse.)
Addiction Treatment Industry. 1.
The business arm of the recovery group movement.
Addictive Voice. 1. Any thinking or feeling that supports,
or even suggests, your future use of alcohol or drugs. 2. An expression of the
appetite for pleasure induced by alcohol or drugs, or the
Beast.
Addictive disease. The idea that
some people do not use alcohol and other drugs of their
own volition and free will, but as the direct result of
irresistible "psychobiosocial" factors over which
they have no control.
Beast. 1. The desire to get high, to drink or use
drugs. 2. Addictive desire. Often used synonymously with "Addictive Voice,"
but more accurately, the appetite or desire for substance-induced
pleasure. 3. Addictive Voice is to Beast as bark is to dog.
(AV —> Beast = Bark —> Dog)
Big Plan. 1. A transcending personal commitment to
unconditional, permanent abstinence. 2. The pivotal act
of self-recovery from addiction to alcohol and other drugs.
Chemical dependence. 1. The use of any substance
for any purpose. For example, "I use salt to make my
food taste good. I depend upon salt to make food
taste better." Or, "I breathe oxygen to stay alive.
I use or depend upon oxygen to survive."
Or, "I take aspirin for headaches. I use or
depend upon aspirin to relieve pain." Or, "I
drink vodka to feel different. I use or depend upon vodka to produce certain feelings." Or, "I
drink beer to have a good time. I use or depend upon beer to enjoy a party." 2. Chemical dependence
(esp., upon drugs and alcohol) is an individual liberty
with known health risks and known personal disadvantages
including regrettable behavior, social ostracism, relationship
problems, divorce, unemployment, and imprisonment. If one
is willing to accept the risks, chemical dependence is a "legitimate" option. Regardless of the content
of prohibition laws and the best efforts of law enforcement
and others who oppose chemical dependence, using
alcohol and drugs for pleasure is a personal liberty that
cannot realistically be controlled by others. {See substance
abuse.}
Co-dependency. 1. A hypothetical disease thought
to affect persons associated with another person who is
suffering from the hypothetical disease, "alcoholism."
Cope. 1. Deal. (See "deal")
Deal. 1. Cope. (See "cope")
Denial. 1. A relatively rare condition noted among
the never-addicted, experimental subjects of psychoanalyst,
Sigmund Freud. 2. Purposeful lying, esp. to sustain an addiction,
e.g., "I drink socially, just like anyone else." 3. An alleged symptom of the hypothetical disease of alcoholism,
in which an addicted person is presumed to be blithely unaware
of the connection between drinking or drugging and the painful
consequences. It is assumed that addicted people are pathetic
dumbbells who do not know that they are addicted. The phenomenon, denial, has never been reported or observed outside
the recovery group movement, which includes its business
arm, the addiction treatment industry. 4. Used to denote
disagreement with chemically dependent people, as in, "He
has a problem but doesn't know it. He's in denial."
5. Archaic: Unpardonable sin of heresy
or blasphemy, as in, "The heretic denied God
and must die."
Enabler. 1. In the recovery group movement, used
to describe persons taken advantage of by addicted people
in order to continue drinking or using drugs. syn.,
sucker. 2. An individual, most often a family member, held responsible for an addicted person’s preposterous drunkenness. 3. A person thought to suffer from the hypothetical
disease, codependency. (See, codependency)
Harm reduction. An attitude of tolerance
by public agencies toward the use of drugs, exemplified
by supplying clean needles to addicted people. Harm reduction
is the direct result of the complete failure of 12-step
addiction treatment to produce abstinent outcomes.
Incapable. 1. Powerless. 2. Used within the recovery
movement to describe persons who disagree with the 12-step
program, e.g., "They are constitutionally incapable
of being honest." Persons thus described are most often
refusing the "first step," that of admitting that
one is powerless, i.e., incapable, of independently
quitting an addiction. The founder of AA, Wm. Wilson, after
many relapses, concluded that he was incapable of
resisting his own desire for the pleasure produced by alcohol,
and subsequently found a religious solution for himself,
which later became the foundation of AA.
Issues. 1. Reality. 2. That with which recovering
people cope and deal. 3. Syn. - problems.
Original Denial. 1. Every addicted person’s denial of the moral dimension of addiction and recovery, specifically the pivotal act of self-intoxication. 2. The disease concept of addiction, which explains the act of self-intoxication as symptom of biopsychosocial conditions. 3. Step 1 of the 12-step program: “We admitted we were powerless…”
PhD. 1. Initials which follow the
surnames of doctorate level psychologists. 2. Initials which,
in Rational Recovery, follow the surnames of phormer drunks
and phormer druggers, as in, "The foremost experts
on addiction recovery are those with PhD's in Rational
Recovery."
Planned abstinence. 1. A style of recovery based
on individual responsibility, self-determination, self-restraint,
moral judgment and conduct, and self-reliance. 2. Harm elimination.
2. The essence of AVRT.
Psychologists. 1. The pro-wrestlers
of the professional community.
Rational. 1. Having to do with conscious thought
processes. The use of reason to solve problems. 2. (slang)
Personally advantageous.
Recovery. 1. The state of secure, planned, permanent
abstinence from alcohol and other drugs, usually followed
by improved personal functioning and emotional tone. 2.
A planned event, rather than an outcome of a lengthy process
of psychological self-discovery or spiritual awakening.
Recovery Group. 1. A mutual procrastination
society that diverts the attention of seriously addicted
people away from the immediate task of becoming securely
abstinent. Recovery groups of any stripe are probably
the slipperiest places in the known universe. 2. A fellowship
of insecurity, in which one may not claim to know if or
when he/she will resume drinking or using drugs. 3. A social
institution to dignify indulgence in alcohol and other drugs,
and to protect members' option to drink or use in the future.
Recovery group disorder (RGD). 1. Addiction in its dessicated phase, i.e., dry addiction. Defining life as dry spells between relapses, i.e., “Every day sober is a day closer to my next relapse.” 2. RGD is epitomized by one-day-at-a-time sobriety while holding to a creed based upon the beliefs and values of addicted people, i.e., the 12-step program.
Recovery group movement. 1. A subculture centered
around indirect means, both spiritual and psychological,
to defeat addictions, as in, "Rational Recovery is
not part of the recovery group movement because the
interests of recovery groups conflict sharply with their
members' interests." 2. A religious movement based
on the 12-step program of Alcoholics Anonymous, with various
denominations centered around different sacramental substances.
3. The feeder system for the addiction treatment industry.
4. A government project that uses the apparatus of nonprofit
organizations to expand its influence in the personal lives
of citizens, e.g., "The judge sentenced the drunk driver
to attend recovery group movement meetings."
5. The drug culture of America between drinking or using
episodes. AA is the embodiment of the desire to drink excessively,
which we call the Beast.
Recoveryism. 1. Engaging in rituals intended to ward off the desire to get high by using alcohol and other drugs. 2. The lifestyle of dry addiction, structured around the philosophy and mandates of addiction, explicitly reserving the privilege of relapse under certain unannounced, undefined conditions. Slang: “in recovery,” “working a good program,” “the broad highway,” etc. (See: Recovery group disorder.) See: Recovery group disorder (RGD)
Relapse. 1. A drinking or drug binge. 2. In the recovery
group movement, something that happens to an individual
rather than a conscious decision to drink alcohol or use
drugs, as in, "I don't know what I was thinking. I
just had a relapse." 3. An expression to convey
that decisions to drink or use happen to people, and that
they are not responsible for that decision." 4. Relapses
do not occur in Rational Recovery, although anyone may decide
to drink or use alcohol. (See, chemical dependence)
Religion. (Webster's Ninth Collegiate Dictionary):
1. A personal set or institutional system of religious attitudes,
beliefs, and practices. 2. That which defines the sacred.
Slip. n. 1. (Slang) A drink of alcoholic
beverage. 2. A drinking binge. "I had a slip
last week." v. (Slang) The act of consuming alcohol.
"I slipped last week." 3. Accident, accidental.
Slippery place. 1. Places where
mingling of Beasts occur, or where the Addictive Voice is
socially prevalent and the conditions for impulsive decisions
to drink or use exist, i.e., bars, drinking parties, recovery
groups, crack houses, etc. 2. Locations where people suffering
from addictive disease may later excuse their decisions
to drink alcohol or use drugs.
Spiritual. 1. (Webster's Ninth Collegiate Dictionary):
Concerned with or attached to religious values; ecclesiastical
rather than lay or temporal; things of a religious, ecclesiastical
nature; something that in ecclesiastical law belongs to
the church or to a cleric. 2. A musical form created in
America during the 1800's by people held lifelong in slavery.
To ease their torment and enhance social cohesion under
oppressive conditions, the slaves sang inspirational songs
expressing reliance on God for deliverance from bondage.
These songs came to be called spirituals. 3. A descriptive
term applied to the 12-step recovery movement, e.g., "AA
is not religious; it is spiritual."
Substance abuse. 1. Abnormal or aberrant use
of alcohol or drugs. 2. Someone else's opinion about
an individual's use of certain substances. For example,
a homeless person who regularly drinks to oblivion may be
abusing alcohol but may not be addicted or even have
an alcohol problem. Some might call the person "an
alcoholic," but this only describes behavior, adds
nothing to our understanding, and helps not at all. If the
drinker in question is simply using alcohol for its effect,
which is physical comfort or pleasure, he or she is merely
chemically dependent. Whether or not the homeless drinker
wants to discontinue drinking cannot be known except by
asking him or her. If he/she doesn't want to quit drinking
and accepts the reality of homelessness, there is no reason
or effective way to interfere with that person's choice.
If the answer is, "Yes, I do want to quit drinking
but I can't get stopped and stay stopped," then that
person is addicted and has a very good prospect of complete
recovery through planned abstinence.
Support. 1. The opinion of substance
abusers that individuals should not expect themselves to
abstain from alcohol and other drugs unless supervised by
others who also do not trust themselves to abstain.
Treatment, addiction. 1. Application of recovery
group movement concepts in a clinical setting, often with
scientific language and professional jargon. 2. An effort
by one person to dissuade another from drinking or drugging,
often using the most tangential means, and then to claim
responsibility for an abstinent outcome. Assumes that drinking
is a symptom of underlying, hidden causes rooted in genetics,
brain chemistry, childhood miseries, adult disappointments,
and separation from God. Always based on the assumption
that addicted people are incapable of immediately and permanently
quitting the addiction. 3. An agreement between a counselor
and client that the client will continue to drink or use
drugs for an indefinite time, at least until certain for-a-fee,
therapeutic exercises are performed. 4. An historical curiosity
of the middle-to-late 20th century.
War on Drugs. An outgrowth of disease thinking, which
asserts that pleasure-producing substances, like aggressive
micro-organisms, actively infect people who then threaten
society. Addicted people are viewed as victims of disease
that renders them unable to refuse drugs, while society
views itself a victim of an imported epidemic. A national
quarantine has been enacted, with the domestic production,
distribution, possession, and use of pleasure producing
drugs made criminal offenses, and with the military and
police activated to enforce it. "Diseased" drug
users, willing to pay large sums of money, demand drugs
and create an attractive market for domestic sales representatives
of economically depressed countries willing to fill orders
for drugs. The vibrant drug trade creates domestic and international
tension, thus providing internal and external enemies to
divert attention from the self-indulgent behavior of addicted
people.